Lillian's Legacy

I created this blog after having others reach out to me in their silent pain. As most of you know, I lost a daughter at 34 weeks in my pregnancy. I cannot describe the pain caused by this tragic time in our lives. However, I believe my daughter, Lillian, is in heaven right now. I know that many others suffer from similar pain of losing a child. A lot of times it's a silent grief because no one even knew about a pregnancy. I've had multiple people in my life feel this pain. It's more common than you know. I wanted to create a place where anyone could anonymously come and send their messages to their children in heaven. I hope this provides a small sense of healing to those who grieve losses. This page was created for those unborn little miracles who are being held by our heavenly Father and anxiously waiting our arrival.

Thursday, June 21, 2012

I thought of this idea to have a way to anonymously write to those little ones that have left us to go be with the Lord.  I hope this blog can bring some sort of comfort to those who need a place to go to and mourn and remember.  I want to offer reassurance that I believe that life begins at conception.  When any complications arise after conception, these lives will live on in Heaven.  Please feel free to pass this blog along to anyone you know that may need a place to send a message to their little one in Heaven.  I pray this blog brings a sense of peace to those who need it.  I hope that I can be some support to those who don't have the ability to share their pain with the world.  It is a very dark place to be and I want those who have been through this, to know that they are not alone.  I am more than happy to talk to anyone who wishes to just have someone hear their pain.  Email me at jaybayes410@gmail.com  Feel free to pass this information and blog along to anyone that may need it.  Please re-post this blog somewhere because you never know who in your life is suffering from this pain.  If you don't know me personally, feel free to read my other blog here.  It is the story of my daughter, Lillian, and her pregnancy.  I will write to my daughter, whom I know is in Heaven, on here publicly.  I hope it will help others feel comfortable and know that it's okay to speak aloud or write to their child(ren) who are in Heaven.  You don't have to post with your name, I made this with the intentions of others being able to remain anonymous. 

Dear Lillian,
I miss you more than words can say.  I think about you nonstop.  I wonder what you are doing and who is taking care of you.  Do you cry?  What do you look like?  Do you have your daddy's dimples?  Your mommy's smile?  I wish I would have been the one to take care of you but I know I could never give you what you have now.  I'm so happy that I was chosen to be your mommy.  Your daddy and I were so blessed to have you in our lives for 8 wonderful months.  We love you with all our hearts.




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  1. Lisa SchmidtJune 21, 2012 at 8:57 AM

    Dear Nicholas,
    We think about you so much and wonder how you are doing. We know that you are no longer suffering and are perfect in heaven. The girls always wonder if you are still a baby or if you are actually an 8 year old boy running around! :) I wish I knew the answer for them! Wish we could visit for a day or have a glimpse of how you are in your new perfect life. Everyone misses you but we all talk about how cousin Luke is really missing having a BOY around to play with...we know you two would be best buds! He get pretty tired of playing with all the girl! :)

    We are trying to do so many things to keep your memory alive and honor you. You may not be here on earth with us but you are a part of this family and a part of everything we do. The girls and I love the Miranda Lambert song with the part "it really sinks in, ya know, when I see it in stone." It's hard to visit your grave site because we miss you so much, but we also LOVE to put your name in STONE!!! Any where I can have your name placed, I do it!! You were listed on the park bench at Summit Park and now you will be honored at the new stadium! You would think it is so awesome and love football like your sisters and me....we're sure of it! lol

    I could go on all day...We love and miss you Nicholas!

    Mommy :)

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    1. Lisa SchmidtJune 21, 2012 at 9:12 AM

      Ugh...should have said "like your sisters and I" ...sorry, big on grammar! lol

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